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The Good Men Project. James M. Well, I say the same goes for guys. Where did we get the notion that only women like to be told they look good, smell good, are hot, smart or sexy? All my life I had the idea that guys were more secure about their looks and sex appeal than women are. Guys are supposed to not care about things like what clothes they wear or whether their new haircut looks good, right?SEE VIDEO BY TOPIC: Sam Smith - I Feel Love (Visualiser)
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15 Sweet Ways to Make a Guy Feel Needed and Wanted
The Good Men Project. James M. Well, I say the same goes for guys. Where did we get the notion that only women like to be told they look good, smell good, are hot, smart or sexy?
All my life I had the idea that guys were more secure about their looks and sex appeal than women are. Guys are supposed to not care about things like what clothes they wear or whether their new haircut looks good, right? So let him know when you see him and just get that oh my gosh you are so hot tingle.
Tell him he looks hot when he wears that old beat-up tee shirt. Let him know how much you love smelling his neck when you hug. Even if he loves his job, I guarantee you there are days when he thinks about throwing in the towel or yelling at his boss, or just hiding away in his office all day.
Part of the reason might be you, and your family. Bread win ning is an incredible responsibility for any person, and society emphasizes this even more so for men. Their earning ability, sadly, is often attached to their value in our society. As much as he probably loves being the at-home parent, and finds immense joy in it, all parents have times when they, too, want to throw in the towel or diaper , yell at the boss the baby? Tell him you appreciate it and that you see his commitment.
Nobody ever owes their partner sex, but cultivating desire is a good thing in a healthy relationship. Even at home you can talk about fantasies or look at sexy photos together, like the diverse set in Dr. Try taking close-ups of a sexy but not-so-obvious body part. Choose to fantasize about him, about a time you were together, about that favorite part of his body that you love so much.
Then heap all that desire upon him when you have the next opportunity to be together, alone. Give him a kiss. But you need to set that phone down and see the man in front of you. When I get stuck in this cycle I try to take a deep breath and consider the worst thing that could happen if I ignored whatever is buzzing at me.
Often when I put down my phone I see him there, and really look at his face. Make a deal with your partner: if you have to pick up your phone for something urgent, let the other know what it is in just a few words. Try not to let it slip by while you stare at a screen. Just take a moment to connect, eye-to-eye, and share looks with one another. Look him in the eye with a smile or a playful expression, and hold his gaze for three seconds. He may be your boyfriend or husband now, but he still deserves to feel special.
One key to a lasting relationship is to give your partner a million happy little moments with you, and he should do the same in return. This article was originally published with the Good Men Project. We're having a conversation about what it means to be a good man in the 21st century. Care to join us? Find us on Facebook , and Twitter.
Take these super-sweet tips and have him blushing with warm fuzzies in no time. Compliment him. Tell him you appreciate what he does for you and your family. Make time for things to get hot in the bedroom. Be supportive of his alone time. Put down your phone. When you get something for yourself, get something for him, too. Picking up a coffee? Grab him one! Making a cup of tea? Offer to make him one, too. Look him in the eyes. Comments comments.
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I mean, we all want to feel loved, right? Consider it where the two of you share your emotions and closeness. An argument or careless comment might make a withdrawal from that virtual bank account, while the following tips on how to make a man feel loved with reap dividends. Put your attention on growing your emotional wealth, not taking away from it.
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Their secrets are out. Thank you, internet. Men on Reddit were asked to reveal what makes them feel wanted by their partners. The little things really do count. Anytime she looks at me she always looks full of energy, excitement, and full of passion. Like her eyes get slightly wider and I can always see the corner of her lips starting to smile slightly. Reading that post stirred up some pretty heavy feelings. She used to have this sort of half smirk or smile whenever we looked each other in the eyes and it always gave me the best feeling in the world, like I was home.
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He assumes he plays an important part in your life, and that makes him try harder to be a nicer boyfriend because he believes his behavior towards you has an impact on your life. A man wants to feel like a man. And he feels good about himself when he sees himself as the provider of your happiness and security. Never reject his effort to make you happy. To your guy, your respect and what you think of him plays a big part in how he feels about himself.
I was recently interviewed for a feature in Fatherly. This can create a barrier to men becoming fully self-actualized, or to having the kinds of high quality relationships that they deserve. It can be hard for many guys to put a voice to how they feel. Another difference is that men often have a higher need for novelty and excitement than women do.
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Think about the little ways you make him feel loved every day. Clear your head for a minute before you see each other so you can feel happy and excited and not bring the stress of your day with you. Knowing someone is grateful for what you do never gets old. Learn how to give a great back massage, and give him one without him asking — or you needing one in return. Find out what his love language is.
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Yes, you want to tell him just how much you love him. But this is what he really wants you to do. Those things that make us feel loved. As women, one of the first things that come to mind is hearing him say, "I love you". We want to feel cherished. We try being as sexy as we can be. We try making him dinner to show him just how we can take care of him.
Men are often reluctant to talk about their needs in intimate relationships. We need frequent reassurance about ourselves, our career paths, our efficacy as partners, our sexual prowess , and our attractiveness among other things. I have countless male clients telling me every month that their partners rarely let them know what they like about them. Why not just have more of a good thing? So ladies, let your praise loose.
Being in a healthy relationship can be so great. You know each other's love languages , you know how to spot the signs of toxic relationship behaviours and you communicate well. But do you know whether your partner s feels desired? We know you know your happiness, safety and comfort should be prioritised in a relationship.