What are you looking for in a female
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What are you looking for an a girl?
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Ok so, this is kind of a hard question to answer. I was talking to this girl online If you say one wrong thing all they have to do is ignore you and go on to the next one. It makes it too easy for them. Anyway, that is what I have chosen to do. So I was emailing this girl, and I just said she was pretty and said we should go out for Indian food some time. Then she writes me back a fairly long email, and she asks me at the end, "What are you looking for? So I gave her some weak answer that included everything from friends to dating to LTR's, which is the truth.
I am open to all of them. But this answer wasn't good either because it makes me look like I don't know what I want. Basically what happened is she never wrote me back. But I still think it presents an interesting dilemma, whether it is asked over email or in person. I'm not sure if there is any good way to answer this question, when it is asked by someone you've never even been on a date with. Any advice? If you think you can handle it Then sign up below. Joined Jan 23, Messages Reaction score 9.
The reason you didn't respond well to her questions is that you assume your response was honest. Seriously, you could have been really honest and said "I want to sleep with you, regardless". WaterTiger Master Don Juan. I'll make it easy for you THIS is the answer we girls want to hear I'm not in a big hurry for anything serious, but with the right girl Joined Mar 19, Messages 1, Reaction score Another way to proceed is to state the truth but totally make fun of it Oh me, I am seeking 10, one nite stands with the same girl for the rest of my life.
She will wait on me hand and foot, just when I am about to exhale and think my life is set, she will do a complete turn around and take all my money, make me fall for her, then divrce my butt and leave me broke and bitter. Interceptor Master Don Juan. If not presented right, this becomes a no win scenario. IOW, it kind of doesnt matter what you say. And the main reason why is that you're giving her a logic based explanation to an emotional feeling scenario. I like WT's response though.
And another thing is to get used to women nexting you, that just means that this particular woman just doesnt 'get' WHO you are. That means it's highly unlikely anything deep and meaningful would manifest with her.
So if she can next a guy, you have the 'power' to next her too. You dont ever lose power , you may lose masculinity and your ability to respond will be affected to varying degrees. THAT is within your control always though. Get out of the scarcity mentality. It makes every interaction too emotionally heavy and desperate.
Kill the desperation. Kill the neediness. Let people take responisibilty for their own decisions. Dont place categories necessarily, dont let her dominate and set her frame on top of your head either.
And whether SHE has these qualities in the first place. She's setting up a no win dynamic in a way. An easy disqualifier mechanism which isnt fair really. How the Hell can you tell her if you want to be her BF or whatever without even knowing her? Can you see how immature and naive this is? You have to spend time with her first , deep intimate time and bonding and see who she is really. So dont accept these women's frame setting on your head anymore.
It will take a while to recognize when theyre doing it and how, but you will get better over time. Read the 22 Rules for Massive Success with Women. Everything you need to know to become a huge success with women. And it's free! Joined Sep 20, Messages 5, Reaction score 4, She asks you this because she wants an LTR. Her need to ask you this question via email without knowing who you are reeks desperation. KNOW who you are dealing with.
Communication of this nature should not take place through email. You cannot respond to this question directly without giving her control of the frame. By answering, she is qualifying you. Reverse qualify here. Email back "Call me and I will tell you. What is it about you that makes you different from the rest of the women? Hi everyone I am really learning so much here. WaterTiger - thanks that is awesome and simple. Interceptor - Ok that makes sense.
I like the idea of sidestepping the categories and it's a good way to qualify her. As far as not giving away power, I was just reading about that in Player Supreme's book.
There are a lot of seemingly arrogant girls out there on the internet, and I find this annoying and distasteful. But I don't have to get involved with any of that. I'm not going to put myself in a place to be mistreated by them or talked down to.
I'm only going to talk to them if I think they would be respectful and nice. No need to go desperately chasing after every pretty face.
11 Men Explain What They’re Actually Looking For In A Woman
Common attributes that come to mind include intelligence, kindness, sense of humor, attractiveness, or reliability. We may think we are looking for a partner who complements us only in positive ways, but on an unconscious level, we are frequently drawn to people who complement us in negative ways as well. What this means is that we tend to pick partners who fit in with our existing emotional baggage. We are inclined to replay events and dynamics that hurt us in the past in our adult relationships. Were they too controlling?
I want someone I can bring home to mom, someone that gets along with my family, and someone I can see myself with for the rest of my life. Someone I can really talk to and confide in. I have to be attracted to her. Just saying.
What I’m looking for in a woman. 10 things. That’s all.
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